Time Slice and People

       As I was walking down on street with my friend,she happened to meet her school mate both of them surprised so see each other at most this place and time.It was after 13 years they saw each each other,as they were discussing their days in school,time spend then and the memories associated,It clicked to me , is not this the case with most of  us.
      All people are busy with life earning,chasing dreams,travelling,making home,etc.As we do this activities we meet many people,some become friends,colleagues,travel buddies,roommates,etc.Is also the case with places,things,etc.Some places are favorite places,we just like to go there whenever feel intense emotions,some are hangout places and so on.
     As the time passes , we make progress in various aspects of life.Thus while achieving something, we leave the places,people who are almost part of everyday life behind, and get busy in activities.
    Someday , just like my friend accidentally meet someone , who use to be important that some point of time and recollect the memories and go back into time living it once more.
    Nothing is permanent, people,places,things changes filled by other people,places and thing.We may want someone,something to stay permanently with us,lucky if it happens, else make sure that the time slice that we got with the person or thing is spend at best.Do take time to tease roommates,talk to person you love most,take time to do adventures with friends,etc.This will be most beautiful memories/stories you would have as the time will pass and you may accidentally see someone .

   

universe is fUll of PossibIliTies

In the world full of possibilities,where human have explored skies,underwater and space, I thought following logic that may sound completely abnormal to many people,but still anything is possible so we never know.
The logic is that maybe there exists the living things/creatures underground somewhere maybe at the core of earth,whose anger(or any other emotions) might be the cause of calamities like volcano's,earthquake things which we categories as "natural calaminities ".
If happy ,the fireworks for them might be the volcano for humans :P.
If anger,throwing the things might be reason of volcano. :D
This may sound completely insane,but the seasons on earth may be because of things that appears during that time and emits heat or cold ...
May be there exists the species somewhere in universe ,who might be discussing "Do you really think,human exists? :P ".
May be there do exists Gods,Devil,Angel,etc who might fear us and believe us as supernatural energies .. :P
I know its very difficult to accept it and the people may come to and tell the theories that explains how this things take place...but still we never know...the theories may prove wrong.
This is just my imagination,I do not claim that such things exists :P

Traffic and common man

Pune traffic, is one of the struggles, people have to go through for reaching to and from work.
People here consider themselves lucky if they happen to get green signal while travelling.
I being pupil of pune,have to face this traffic and put in efforts to drive and get to and from work as most of the population.
Here is area called "Nal Stop", where the traffic while drive you mad, as the road is small and the number of vehicles make congestion heavy.

Traffic police put in their efforts to manage the traffic,but what I feel bad is that although police make so many efforts , people do break the rules whenever and wherever possible.
To my surprise , I happen to stop beside the auto ,who had to stop the vehicle as directed by  the police. The lady in the auto started shouting at driving ,why didn't you go, the other guy went,
Auto driver told her humbly that he cannot go as police directed him to stop.

Then the dialogue between driver and lady went as follows:
Lady: "I am daughter of DCP"
Driver:"Whoever you are , I cannot go as the police is in front of auto"
Lady:"You should have gone, police wont stop as I am daughter of DCP,I would have talked to him"
And then she made some calls to someone , screaming at them that I am daughter of DCP, why are there so many signals on this road , why cant you manage it , blah blah.
Here , What I fail to understand is , Being the daughter of high profile person, you should be humble person and should follow the rules that common man follows to set the ideal in front of people,
But this is completely different and unexpected behavior.
On top of that, why scream on driver , if you think you are of such a important person , get the car with red light on it , so people and police would let you go.

"The higher we are placed , the more humbly we should walk" they say..think over it

THe Gem Seller in Nepal

On my Trip in Nepal,while surfing the market I met the guy who was glad to meet me, as I belong to country he once belonged.

Big fan of bollywood ,this guy had the gem shop in Thamel region .

I like to meet new people ,listen there stories,their experiences ,their dreams.

This guy welcomed me in his shop,told me about various gems,thought me how to recognize real gem vs fake gem.

Big fan of Salman Khan I particularly remember his story bcoz he was very rich sucessful mercant in valley ,Very proud to have customers that are very known faces in bollywood “Akshay kumar,Neha Dhupia”.He knew various languages as he had travelled extensive the globe,meet people.

In spite of having such a successful life, he had regret of not following his heart,regret of following the crowd ,thinking of society , living normal life.

He dreamed of modeling,working in bollywood industry,but did not go to mumbai for the reason that people convinced him that the family already has great business,he can have all the luxuries..blah blah..

He did not dare to leave his comfort zone then.

But now all he wished was that he could have left his comfort zone,dared to follow his heart only once. :(

We always come across the stories that tell you to follow your heart,listen inner voice ,be in peace with yourself,love is never source of struggle.

But we often ignore it,as we are always busy to survive in the rat race,convincing ourself to be happy and sacrificing life for loved ones(can your loved ones be happy if you are not happy?),thinking all of above is shit talked by people because their life is stable,successful.

Please take some time and think about yourself,because failing (while chasing dreams) would be better one time than having regret throughout the life that you wish you had done something.

Custom of gifts :)

In such a fast life where communications take place through mails,phone,chats I hardly check my post box.To my sweet surprise , yesterday when I was sorting the documents in post box I received POst-card from loving friend.

Reading the message and receiving this butiful card made my day.Feeling that some one think of you ,is awesome.

Gifts are means to express your concern,care,thought,love for person ,that the part of you really care for that person.

We receive and give so many gifts,isnt that sweet.

Gifts from parents,for parents,sibling.

Gifts for roomates,gifts from roommates.

Wishes card on b'day,FArewell cards.

Choclates when you upset and really down.

Bouquets to get well soon..(I get inquired oftenly so receive this gifts oftenly .. :P)...

Mothers day fathers day gifts.

Marriage day gift.Valentines-friendship day gift.

Parting gift,break up gifts.

Arrival/Departure gift..:P

When you are actually away from people you love to be with,gifts reminds of times spend together .  

Be creative ,use your imagination and think about the gifts that you can give .Giving the gitfs that are useful is not the condition to give gift.Instead give the gift that put smile on person who receives it ,that would perfectly serve the purpose.

Some lines by Bob Marley..

Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you. When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement. They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself. Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful. There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are. The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever. Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again. Colours seem brighter and more brilliant. Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn’t exist at all. A phone call or two during the day helps to get you through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face. In their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you find you’re quite content in just having them nearby. Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you. You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do. Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon. You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life.

Play the way you feel!!

This is short story on one of my friend MP I would like to share with her permission :P(Names are imaginary).
MP as she is from mumbai , has done schooling from mumbai.
From pre schooling she was friend with Rahul. Both of them were is same school,neighbours.
As the time passed both were best friends until standard 7th , where Rahul had to shift to Dehli sadly.
That was time ,mobiles and means of communications were not so easily available.

After some years , they could contact through FB, and all school mates on FB , creating group, discussing life,planning get together,etc.But as we grow up,we get more busy and the plans remains plan.

MP went for trip to Leh . During the trip she had one day halt in Delhi. So,This was time she could spend with long lost friend.She just called him and the guy came to meet without complaining about the routine,being busy with schedule etc. They talked about school,memories neibourhood,life,etc.Visited various places in Dehli. :)

Sadly after 2 months , Rahul died due to accident. ....very sad thing..:(
The discussions started among the groups we could have meet him then,we should have done get together and all possibilities to meet him.But now he is gone , this discussions holds no importance.
But while telling this,MP was content that she didnt miss the chance to meet him when she could.
It was only the time she could have meet him and nowhere after maybe(lucky her).

The point of her telling me this story to give me message , "No matter you have argument,debate,discussion quarrel with people who are important , don't shut them out of your life.
Debate,quarrel,argue ..agree..disagree ..but then do make apologies and  do forgive..."
I know this is not related to story but yes it is related to the same feeling that people have when someone goes away...
So be busy with your life,routine,earning money,making life.But do take time for people who are important,close , who loves you ..whom you love.
No one knows how much time they have to be with people who are most important.Enjoy it!!!