Some lines by Bob Marley..

Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you. When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement. They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself. Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful. There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are. The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever. Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again. Colours seem brighter and more brilliant. Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn’t exist at all. A phone call or two during the day helps to get you through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face. In their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you find you’re quite content in just having them nearby. Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you. You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do. Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon. You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life.

Play the way you feel!!

This is short story on one of my friend MP I would like to share with her permission :P(Names are imaginary).
MP as she is from mumbai , has done schooling from mumbai.
From pre schooling she was friend with Rahul. Both of them were is same school,neighbours.
As the time passed both were best friends until standard 7th , where Rahul had to shift to Dehli sadly.
That was time ,mobiles and means of communications were not so easily available.

After some years , they could contact through FB, and all school mates on FB , creating group, discussing life,planning get together,etc.But as we grow up,we get more busy and the plans remains plan.

MP went for trip to Leh . During the trip she had one day halt in Delhi. So,This was time she could spend with long lost friend.She just called him and the guy came to meet without complaining about the routine,being busy with schedule etc. They talked about school,memories neibourhood,life,etc.Visited various places in Dehli. :)

Sadly after 2 months , Rahul died due to accident. ....very sad thing..:(
The discussions started among the groups we could have meet him then,we should have done get together and all possibilities to meet him.But now he is gone , this discussions holds no importance.
But while telling this,MP was content that she didnt miss the chance to meet him when she could.
It was only the time she could have meet him and nowhere after maybe(lucky her).

The point of her telling me this story to give me message , "No matter you have argument,debate,discussion quarrel with people who are important , don't shut them out of your life.
Debate,quarrel,argue ..agree..disagree ..but then do make apologies and  do forgive..."
I know this is not related to story but yes it is related to the same feeling that people have when someone goes away...
So be busy with your life,routine,earning money,making life.But do take time for people who are important,close , who loves you ..whom you love.
No one knows how much time they have to be with people who are most important.Enjoy it!!!

Temporary life and permanent things

Idea struck to my mind while talking about what happens to facebook and google account after death.

May be people can nominate the people who can claim their account after death.

But then My colleague argued what can be so important that needs

to be claimed...

I said, photos ...maybe some documents..

He said nothing can be important once you are dead.....He said,"I have made permanent tattoo on my hand ...but after thinking deeply Is this tatoo really permanent..Once I am dead It don't exists anymore.."

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Is not this so true..

Death is the ultimate god..we all know..

Still as a human, we make plans as if we have infinite time.

We plan to buy home,then car,then other bigger house and assets that can be used in case of emergency.

We people spend most of our life earning money to buy own flat,car,blah blah..

First the money gets cut for home rent,car,etc...

Then with the amount left we think of spending it for the things we actually want,we actually like.

We hardly think about the hobbies,ideas that make us happy ,actually..

Is not this life driven by money instead of person driving money.

Should not be person doing the jobs that actually give them sense of achievement..leave them satisfied..

Is it really necessary to buy house if you dream of travelling world...

does it make sense to do high profile job when teaching is your passion....

It is ok that you don't practice singing because after travelling from home to office working and then coming back leaves no time and energy..

Life is too short and we are such a small creature on the earth...

Don't take all things so seriously,

Its OK if you don't have big bungalow but flat with friends to party.

Its OK if you don't big cars but you travel a lot explore new places,meet new people try new food..

Its OK if you don't have huge amount in your bank account but you have money to help people.

Dream what you want to dream; 
Go where you want to go; 
Be what you want to be, 
Because you have only one life 
And one chance to do all the things 
You want to do. 

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Be with people that makes you happy and keeps you positive..

don't forget to enjoy the life instead of just living mechanically..